2021 A New Year

One of the hardest things that I wrestle with is navigating personal relationships with a sense of my personhood which says I am on a life's journey that means I am ever changing in mind, heart, soul, and body. What I have learned in the last ten to fifteen years about myself and the world around me means that I am no longer what or who I once was. 


This is especially true as I consider all that I have learned, particularly about myself, over the last two years.  It is complicated and beautiful. But, what I have learned is about the deepest part of who I am. It's the me that I never let myself consider because I was busy trying to be who I thought I was supposed to be.

Now that I am getting acquainted with this part of myself, I cannot ignore or "unknow" my existence.

It also means that I have a hard time trying to figure out how to interact with the people in my life. 

But, there is one thing I know. It has been a constant knowing as this piece started to come into focus. I know that my Creator loves me. This is how I Am has knit me together. In God,  I am fearfully and wonderfully made.

If there is a part of you that you are struggling to embrace, those same words are true for you. You are beloved. You are wonderfully made.

Some knowing about ourselves may be difficult to embrace while navigating earthly relationships. Yet, that is the journey we are all on; learning to live and love ourselves as God has created us.

This is my 2021 journey. Wishing you a journey this year that spreads light, life, grace and peace to the world. 



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